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Friday, December 18, 2009

7tips on how to deal with missing ur ex

For those who have just ended their relationship, there
will surely be moments when you will miss your ex.

Here are seven tips on how to deal with missing your ex
girlfriend or boyfriend.

1. Remind yourself that your relationship is over.

For as long as you are hoping to be back in a relationship
again with your ex, you will continue to feel that you are
missing someone in your life. You have to be determined in
realizing that the relationship is over and there is no use
thinking of having another chance at getting your ex back.

2. Return your ex' stuff.

Schedule an exchange of items with your ex and let him/her
know that you are giving them back their stuff, and you are
expecting your things back also. This way, you do not hold
on to these personal items for sentimental reasons,
reminding you of your ex often. If there are other things
you forgot to return, just throw it all away to avoid
having constant reminders of your ex' presence in your life.

3. Write your ex a letter... then burn it.

This is a good way to get all your pent-up emotions out of
your system. One of the main reasons why partners still
miss their ex is because they really have not fully
expressed themselves yet. Writing an honest letter is a
good outlet to let it all out, and when you burn the letter
you can enjoy watching your words go up in smoke.

4. Hang out with your friends again.

You will surely miss your ex if he/she took up most of your
time. Usually, when you are in a serious relationship, your
friends and family get a bit neglected. Now may be the best
time to reconnect with your old friends and spend more time
with them to get your mind off missing your ex partner.

5. Get into a new hobby and meet new friends.

Now that you have more time in your hands, you can fill it
with new activities or interests. Think of the things that
you wanted to do but never got around to doing it because
you didn't have the time then. Before you know it, you may
actually be enjoying your new hobby, making more new
friends along the way.

6. Get a new pet.

Whether a cat, dog or a bird, reconnecting with another
being can help you deal with reality. A pet can demand
attention which you may be willing to give now that you
have no one to give it to. When you miss your ex, you can
also reach out to your pet that loves you unconditionally.

7. Start going out with other people.

The world keeps on moving even if yours stopped for a while
when your ex broke up with you. It is about time you start
mingling again and date every once in a while. Do not worry
if your first date is lousy or you do not click with
another person at once. Like everything else in this world,
it will just be a matter of time.

Once you start enjoying yourself again, you are sure to
miss your ex less and embrace your new life more.


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